If you are struggling to get your girlfriend to leave you alone, here are some tips that will work for you.
Tell her that you’re going to take her out to tea.
This is a no brainer.
You are going to have to take your time with this.
This is a long shot but if you can’t tell her what to expect, chances are she is going to be uncomfortable with the idea.
If she is feeling uncomfortable, take it out of the equation.
Tell your girlfriend you are going for a walk.
This may sound obvious but it is one of the most effective ways to get her to stop being a problem.
Give her a hug.
This will get her on your side and keep her company.
Ask her if you have seen her in the morning.
If you ask this, she will be more likely to want to leave.
This means you have to be careful.
Tell them that you will be out for tea.
This can be done either by sitting in your own room or going to a coffee shop.
It is important to keep the time you are giving them under five minutes.
If your girlfriend says no, ask her to leave in the afternoon.
If her response is no, then there is no point in talking to her any longer.
She may be scared to leave and not want to talk to you any more.
If they say no, take her home.
Again, this is a little more difficult because it requires you to be able to physically hold her and to not make any moves.
Be firm about it.
Make sure she knows what you are doing.
When she is home, tell her you love her and that you want to spend more time together.
If things have calmed down, try talking to your girlfriend again.
This time ask her if she wants to go out with you.
If this does not work, then you may want to wait a little longer.
Be sure to leave a note in her diary.
She will need this to remind her of the date you had.
If the date is over, this may be a good time to talk about what happened.
Tell everyone that you are leaving, that you can do whatever you want, but don’t do anything stupid.
If any of these are not working, try calling her again.
If no one answers, then call the police.
Try telling her that she has to get back to her room, but if that is not possible, then tell her to do it herself.
If that does not get her out, then it may be time to call the cops.
Tell all her friends and family that you have left her.
If not, try telling all her relatives that you left her and she will want to see you.
If there are no more visitors, you may need to do this again.
If nothing else, be sure to have a cup of tea for your girlfriend before you leave.